I entered the church that evening with God’s peace inspiring my steps.If you are dating someone seriously, how peaceful do you feel when you think about marrying that person?However, if you select a marriage partner wisely, you could enjoy a lifetime together of intimate love and passion.
The good news is that as a Christian, you are not alone in your decision-making process. He offers His divine wisdom in every situation so that you don’t have to rely upon your emotions or finite wisdom. ” But we can understand these things, for we have the mind of Christ (1 Corinthians ,14,16 NLT). He gave you the mind of Christ so you can perceive life from His perspective.
And God has actually given us his Spirit…so we can know the wonderful things God has freely given us.… Jesus can work through your heart and mind to direct you toward a good relationship and dissuade you from a bad one.
but i recently met a really hot black man who makes me wet and weve been flirting alot and talking about alot and he knows im married and doesnt care and i dont care hes married so its all cool and i know he wont talk to my husband about this.
but what sorta worries me is what if me and my black man hook up and its so good i dont want my husband anymore or maybe even dont want to be married to him and just cant stop with this stud black i found and only want him.
They so dread marrying the wrong person that they do not marry at all.
In the midst of these extremes, how can a single adult sensibly decide whom to marry?
They may have only dated for a few months, but their blissful feelings convince them that they are destined for each other.
By contrast, other couples date for years but never find the courage to make a commitment.
I suddenly became anxious about not feeling nervous.
Fortunately, as I dressed in my tuxedo, God reminded me that I had every good reason to marry Ashley and that He would uphold our marriage.
Or if she does not cheat and forsakes her beloved black lovers, she settles for lack lustre of a white husband, all the while cheating herself of a fulfilling, spiritually enlightened, liberated sexuality and ends up pining in misery longing for her past black lovers.